Signal # 9 : Others General Advice

Signal # 9 : Others General Advice

1. Kalau uols tahu uols hubby pernah cheated dengan couple die before you, there is a hig possibilty he will do the same to you.
2. Unfortunately, the "signs" aren't that obvious nor are they that reliable. If he/she is doing it "right", you won't be able to tell unless you catch him/her in the act. In general, if you're the type of person that tries to keep life interesting for your spouse, you'll minimize the potential, but you can't eliminate the possibilitty no matter what you do. Some people tend to cheat no matter what their home life is like. Kan?!! Were they cheating on someone else when they met you? If so, it's probably an established behavior pattern. If your spouse is the type of person who can be trusted in other areas of life you might have a good reason to trust him in marriage. After all, marriage is about trust and commitment.
3. Tetapi kalo you hubby tidak berlaku curang, namun uols perangai macam hanjeng, constantly be suspicious and questioning, uols might just drive him/her into being unfaithful.
4. If you believe they're different now, then take the time and think of a plan to investigate them on your own. Ini adalah sebab, usually those who are unfaithfull tend to do the same after a few months or years.
5. PERCAYALAH, kalau uols rasakan yang naluri hati uols mengatakan bawah uols punya hubby curang, 9 out of 10 times uols are RIGHT!!
6. A spouse often cheats with someone close to both of you, e.g. a neighbor, friend, or even a family member of yours. Are they especially close to someone of the opposite sex? Or in a gay realtionship, ada tak your hubby rapat dengan your friends yang sama orientation ke? Kan! Perlu buat penyemakan yer! Dah banyak dah bukti keliling kita yang cars-mencaras dalam diam nie! Ish!!!
7. Be patient. Don't let them know you suspect them. Plan what to do if they really are cheating on you or lying to you. Be prepared to leave them.