Signal # 9 : Others General Advice

Signal # 9 : Others General Advice

1. Kalau uols tahu uols hubby pernah cheated dengan couple die before you, there is a hig possibilty he will do the same to you.
2. Unfortunately, the "signs" aren't that obvious nor are they that reliable. If he/she is doing it "right", you won't be able to tell unless you catch him/her in the act. In general, if you're the type of person that tries to keep life interesting for your spouse, you'll minimize the potential, but you can't eliminate the possibilitty no matter what you do. Some people tend to cheat no matter what their home life is like. Kan?!! Were they cheating on someone else when they met you? If so, it's probably an established behavior pattern. If your spouse is the type of person who can be trusted in other areas of life you might have a good reason to trust him in marriage. After all, marriage is about trust and commitment.
3. Tetapi kalo you hubby tidak berlaku curang, namun uols perangai macam hanjeng, constantly be suspicious and questioning, uols might just drive him/her into being unfaithful.
4. If you believe they're different now, then take the time and think of a plan to investigate them on your own. Ini adalah sebab, usually those who are unfaithfull tend to do the same after a few months or years.
5. PERCAYALAH, kalau uols rasakan yang naluri hati uols mengatakan bawah uols punya hubby curang, 9 out of 10 times uols are RIGHT!!
6. A spouse often cheats with someone close to both of you, e.g. a neighbor, friend, or even a family member of yours. Are they especially close to someone of the opposite sex? Or in a gay realtionship, ada tak your hubby rapat dengan your friends yang sama orientation ke? Kan! Perlu buat penyemakan yer! Dah banyak dah bukti keliling kita yang cars-mencaras dalam diam nie! Ish!!!
7. Be patient. Don't let them know you suspect them. Plan what to do if they really are cheating on you or lying to you. Be prepared to leave them.

Signal # 8 : Money

Money

1. Money is unaccounted for (this clould also be drugs uols!). Yerla , motif tetibe ada sajork duit yang hilangkan!
2. Uols jumpa resit for items you've never seen. For isntance you as a wife, sekali uols belek-belek your husband jumpa resit from a sex shop and the item is : "Lucas Bedtime Story II - Bel Ami" - No Need to Say More lah kan?!
3. There are unexplained changes in the credit card bills.

Signal # 7 : Sign from the Car

Sign From The Car.

1. They are using more gas than before. Sebelum in uols tgk ala-ala kete kancil your hubby pakai minyak perday is Rm5.00 sekali tup tup sekarang ini sehari dah jadi RM20.0.Motif? Adakah ada affiar dengan orang yang berjauhan? Danggup gigih berulang ni!
2. Next, the mileage in their car is too high. Check the mileage for them to and from work. Is there a lot of unexplained mileage? Pikir-pikirkan!
3. Kalau uols rancang nak kemana-mana dengan menaiki kereta die, die akan buat uols tunggu while derang clean out the kereta.
4. Uols naik kereta die sekali nah! That it, motif ada 2 tin Coke or anything in pair. For instace, Large Drink can fo McD sedangkan die kata dinch ada orang naik kereta die tadi. Lepas tanya, baru je cakap " Oh tu, tadi my officemate tumpang kereta", sedangkan in reality checked, die menganggur. Kan?!
5. Themusic station dlm kereta die ala ala berubah dan CD collection juga ada yang baru dan uols yakin he didn't listen to such songs.

Signal # 6 : Changes in Behaviour or Lifestyle

Changes in Behaviour or Lifestyle.

1. Your partner start to eat new food. For example ala ala your hubby dinch pernah makan sayur kan, sekali die melahap sayur sahaja ala-ala vegetarian. Motif sangat kan?!
2. Their are unsual changes in their routine or habits. Before this die tidak pernah makan breakfast or supper tetibe makan breakfast menunya pula adalah telur sepruh masak with honey, air Tongkat Ali gelas besar.
3. Your partner want to be with their "guy friends" or "girlfriend" more often. Selalunya mereka akan beralasan macam ini : "Yang, tonite abang nak lepak kat mapley nak tengok bola malam ini". But when uols kata nak ikut, die kuarkan seribu satu alasan.
4. This last signal ini are not applicable to Malaysian but we never know jugak kan. Your hubby dah lama dinch lama tidak mandi dirumah but he seem just showered.

Signal # 5 : Unusual Telephone Manner

Unusual Telephone Manner

1. Telefon hubby uols berdering and he is not around. So you pung angkat la kan. Kaedahnya, some one from opposite sex (in gay relationship kinda susuah sikit la nak detact cos nowadays yang bersore abang abang also can become a drag queen kan?! - go figure) calls that you never heard their name before. Alasan yang diberikan biasanya adalah business matter. HARGH TUIH business matter!
2. They hang up the call when you came closer.
3. There are alot of short calls. Ala ala sekajb sahaja kan. Your hubby just jawab "OK" and then the other word is "Bye". Selain the word "OK", other common word is "Later".
4. They never let anyone answer the phone. Worst they satrt to use password or PIN number to access the phone. Sesuatuh sangat kan?! Or their phone bill is going paperless and only them can view the onlie bill statement.
5. Tak pung, if you still can view his phone activity, uols dapati there are alot of incoming, missed or outgoing calls that you tak kenal. Sesuatuh nih!
6. They do not asnwer the phone when they dengan uols. Ataupun, if they are out with their friend as they claimed, he off the phone.

Signal # 4 : Unexplained Time Away

Unexplained Time Away

1. Your partner keep making excuse yang depa need to go out and when they are gone, it take longer than before. Example, Avang uols cakap die nak ke kedai beli rokok but hilang for 5 hours. Bile balik alasan yang diberikan pergi isis minyak, traffic jam tak pun terus tutup phone, battery habis katanya. **remind me of someone la alasan ittiew but sapa yerk?! LOL!!**
2. They suddenly have to go somewhere. For instance, tengah berdua-dua cuddling tengok movie romantis kat ruang tamu kan, berpegang tangan berpeluk segala-mala. Tetibe your hubby bangun and said "I think I need to hit the gym". Syial kan?! LOL!! Motif pergi gym tetibe?!
3. They frequently call you to inform that depa will be home late. Kalau alasan yang diberikan adalah overtime, double check tengok amount check tak naik pun. Kalau tak pung, famos alasan is : Tolong kawan, kereta die pancit or rosak! Becareful bile dapat ini panggilan! Atatupun kalau uols satu office, your partner start to take longer breaks for lunch and dinner meeting. (becareful with this signal cos from survey it shows that most affairs start at the office!!)
4. Mereka gagal untuk dihubungi. Yess uols! Fonomena tutup handphone seperti LOL!! **no need to emntion name, semua pung tahu. Matilah meks kene carut selepas ini** Sesungguhnya perbuatan menamatkan panggilan adalah satu perbuatan yang KEJI. LOL!!!
5. They disappear at unexplained or unusual time. Pukul tiga pagi uols terbangun tengok abang uols dinch ado dirumah. Katanya ke 7-E beli air mineral. Alasan LOL!!!

Signal # 3 : Special Interest In Apperance and Personal Grooming

Special Interest In Appearance and Personal Grooming

1. Your partner beli baju baru. And they start to wear those new clothes, sexy outfits or their fave undies. For instance, tak pernah pernah your BF beli baju baru, die pergi beli satu hot pants and pakai kat La Queen which the pants left only a little bit for imagination.
2. They start to wear cologne or perfume.
3. They start to make themselves look beautiful just to go somewhere casual. Tetibe sajork kan, nak gi buang sampah kat luar rumah pun bersiap berjam-jam. Tup tup tup, berscandal dengan bangla rumah bujang kat depan.
4. Your partner spent time dekat depan cermin, make up, buat rambut, anything la but depan cermin. Ala-ala self worship kechantekkan diri sendiri padahal muka ala-ala sangkak. **the mirror itself pun dah nak hampir retak dek kesangkakan muka nya**
5. Sign yang meks dapat last for this category memang tak leh blah! meks nak terbahak sund! Start trimming pubic hair. LOL!!! Memang betul. Meks paham konsep ittiew, but ntah, macam tergelak je bile ingat this signal.